The allure of success stories and transformations in the magical realm of weight loss is undeniable. How did they do it? Did they have a magic pill or system? Was it easy and did it take 24 hours? The impact of success stories and transformations can be profound, serving as powerful motivators and sources of inspiration for those embarking on their own journeys. They can serve as beacons of hope, guiding us towards the promise of transformation, healthier futures, and the empowerment that comes with shedding those extra pounds. These narratives often carry the weight of inspiration and motivation, reminding us that change is possible and within our grasp.
Are success stories and transformations worth the read?
I’m in two minds on the subject. On the one hand, success stories and transformations play a crucial role in some people’s weight loss journey. They are more than mere stories; they embody what’s achievable. They provide insights into how individuals achieved their goals, the strategies they employed, and the valuable lessons they learned along the way. These narratives offer guidance and encouragement, telling us, “You can do it too.”
Success stories and transformations can be inspirational.
They can resonate with us personally, offering tangible proof of the extraordinary changes that can take place. If we have that belief in ourselves and in our own ability to make a change. They remind us that success is within each of us and that the path to transformation is within our grasp.
However, the extent to which these narratives resonate with individuals can vary; some may find connecting with the stories being told challenging. I have experienced moments where I struggled to relate to specific success stories and transformations, leading to feelings of frustration and a subsequent disconnection from the narrative.
However, it’s essential to acknowledge that within these stories, a somewhat frustrating aspect exists—the tendency to justify the reasons for weight gain. I must clarify this point. We all face challenges and adversities in life. Life events such as parental illnesses, job loss, family issues, and personal health problems can put tremendous stress on us as individuals. Sometimes, this leads to stress eating and then weight gain.
Why lose weight in the first place
When people think about losing weight, they tend to look at themselves as they are now and where they were three, four, or twenty-four years ago. The weight difference can be massive. Some of us could have been a size 10; now we are a size 20 or 24. In some of these photos we could look unrecognisable. Looking back is often the starting point of most eating plans. Others may have had a visit to the doctor and are advised to lose weight for health reasons. Whatever reason you used to decide to lose weight is a tough decision. Now you have to choose how and what it is you are going to do.
The other side of Success Stories and Transformations
There is, however, one side of a success story and transformations that annoys me. The bit where someone justifies why they have put on weight. Let me explain. We all have different issues in our lives. We may have parents who have a life-changing illness, redundancies, children, death, divorce, personal medical issues, etc. Many of these success stories and transformations are brought to the forefront and explain why people put on weight.
Do you find them inspirational?
Most people are already on the road to increased weight. By the foods we eat and portion sizes we consume. Yes, I agree that a life-changing event will push you towards the cupboards where the biscuits lives. Stress eating is real, and comfort can be found at the end of a chocolate bar. However, some of us put on weight because we EAT TOO MUCH. Some of us put on weight because we like chocolate, biscuits and cake. This was evident during the pandemic. I agree it was massively stressful and the restrictions on our lives and liberties. How many of us took advantage of the time at home to get fit and healthy or to exercise more? To learn something new or did we take advantage of the time to eat whatever we liked? To eat lots of it, knowing that people can only see your head on a Zoom call.
Am I being mean here?
I don’t know. I am lucky in that I have never lost a child or a parent. But I have had other life stresses. I worked 70 hours plus in a week, staying in a hotel because my boss wanted me in the office at 7 am, and I couldn’t leave until 9 pm (I was bullied in the workplace), being made redundant, setting up my business and then just living. There is stress there. This, however, is not why I put on weight. I put on weight because I overate and I didn’t care about my health, and I wanted instant gratification. I own this story, and it’s mine. It is not one I would include as part of the success stories and transformations you read about in magazines.
These stories are helpful if you can relate to them. If not, then they fall on deaf ears. What are your thoughts? Am I being very mean and closed-minded here? I firmly believe in taking ownership of our choices and recognising the role of our habits in our weight management journey. I refuse to let external circumstances overshadow my responsibility for my dietary decisions and their impact on my overall well-being. While I acknowledge the validity of the struggles faced by others, I believe that a genuine narrative should encompass honesty and self-awareness, shedding light on the true motivations and behaviours behind weight gain and loss.
Back to Me
Why start, what was your reasoning?
There are so many diets and eating plans you can choose from; selecting the correct one is the most critical decision you will make. For me, it was Slimming World, but you could choose another eating plan. I like the freedom of the Slimming World; I can select any food I want, and nothing is off-limits. (Check this post here for more information about the plan).
Reflecting on my recent journey, I recognise the importance of staying focused and committed to my goals. While facing challenges and setbacks, I put on half a pound this week. I remain determined to make even positive choices, such as prioritising breakfast and packing nutritious lunches. I am setting the stage for a more prosperous and fulfilling week ahead.
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